My English grandfather was a bit of an enigma to me have to say... A true company man in the 60's mold (double-tanked British racing green JaguarXJ6 included -fantastic) who was first a salesman (white gloves/ketchup popsicle type) then hard nosed union busting manager, and definitely not PC. Easy to make him laugh though, that felt good... First read Jaws and Dr. No from his bookshelf. His barber was the first to buzz the back of my neck as a short/back/sides; running your hand over that was a milestone.Love the picture above as it showed him in entertain the children mode which consisted of getting out a Mamod engine (which ran on methylated spirits, the toy actually produced in nearby Birmingham) whose flywheel could be hooked up to various attachments like a polishing wheel. Other activities with gramps were; watch Tom&Jerry, mow the lawn and eat unconstituted jelly cubes.
I could only find 1 photo of him NOT wearing a tie; and in later years a tie, shirt, v-neck sweater and tweed jacket were the uniform. Gramps rocked the brylcreem/braces/armband combo for as long as I remember; you can just peek the nickel armbands in the picture. Actually coming around on these; allows one to get dressed properly but then zoom your sleeves up a bit if you need to tackle say, a greasy oilcan for your grandchildren...
In the evening we could pour him a glass of sherry or he would make a G&T, soon to be followed by the mock-bellowing of someone has finished my drink! meaning can someone please refill my glass. Good stuff. He mellowed alot as the years went by and got to meet 2 of his grandchildren. Passed away a year ago, at Pops' house, about as perfectly as you could ask for.
The below photo was also at his West Midlands house about 25 years after the above, just next door to that yellow kitchen. Vermont map over my shoulder and granny's thimble collection on the wall. Grandpa probably wearing that same black tie...
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Great post James. I love the "somebody finished my drink" comment. Everybody's gotta have a signature line, right? I have a buddy who when we see his father we say how nice it is to see him. A simple reply of "well, it is good to be seen" is what we get in reply. Your grandfather seems like one hell of a guy.
Really really nice, man.
My Mom's dad's line was "laughing leads to crying."
My Dad's stepdad's line is "I'm on on a seafood diet. I see food and I eat it!"
Great sentiments there. My mother's dad was born in Rugby (GB), moved to the US to attend the Yale School of Forestry. Spent a good bit of time in the backwood of Canada before settling in So. Georgia. Always 'dressed' for dinner. He was my childhood viewport into the Victorian age - I didn't quite realize it at the time though. My favorite quotes (which typically followed a huge 'English' dinner) were:
"Twas but a child's portion!"
"Many a man would have made a meal of it!"
or
"Twas good.. what little there was of it!"
the quotes are flying. love it.
Nice one Gents, love all the wonderful quotes. In his later years our Gramps would always say "would there be another gin and tonic"?, and whenever you poured him anything he would say, "Just a touch", although never meant it. He was quite the charmer later on especially, as his memory went a wee bit so whenever he saw someone (often never have met them, or forgotten them atleast) he would say "You look marvelous...marvelous!" with gusto. The ladies loved it!
Ah, "just a touch" love it. Nana's is "just a splash." She could put away a lot of splashes ;)
from OMA "remember when we visited and Norman made us a G&T with the remark "That's probably the best gin and tonic you've ever had ! "
English style... -never enough ice but it was the the thought that counted and always made us laugh.
Also once out on the terrace with Alexander - one of our last visits and Gramps very frail but came slowly across with a silver tray with glasses of sherry -like the butler - " You rang Sir "
Classic and always so courteous as you say---
you have captured him so well with love and affection "
Mutt xx "
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